Sep 152015

1Dogs grieve the loss of another dog to varying degrees, depending on the relationship and bond they built over their time together. Some dogs will refuse to eat; some suffer more dramatically by trying to escape, apparently to go in search of their lost mate. Some seem to instinctively know what has occurred and behave in a more needy fashion than usual; following you from room to room, demanding attention or affection. No matter how your dog reacts, the following tips can help you and your dog get through this difficult time.

  • 2If possible, prepare your dog for the departure of his mate. Soften the upcoming transition by spending extra time alone with your dog, engaging in activities that he enjoys, such as walks or playing fetch. Your aging or sick dog will probably enjoy some peace and rest. If you make the difficult decision to euthanize one of your dogs, you may want to consider allowing your other dog to be present (with your vet’s approval) as this may speed up his grieving process.
  • Continue taking walks and playing games that your remaining dog enjoys. Whatever form your dog’s grief takes, you have to ensure that special thought is given to helping him cope with his loss. Lots of walks can be very helpful; try not to leave your dog alone too much. Fresh air and exercise can benefit you both. Instigate play, or try providing an interactive toy that delivers treats. You will be grieving too, but you need to keep your spirits up as you still have a dog that needs you now a much as ever.
  • Stick to your normal routine as much as possible, and show your dog you are still his leader. Some owners begin to alter their own behavior; they stop taking the remaining dog for walks or stop behaving like a leader. The dog’s whole routine is changed, which is very stressful for a dog and will add to his loss and compound his problems. It is important that the leadership you have provided your dogs over the years remains, as dogs that lose a mate often suffer from what their owners fail to do. If you stop showing clear leadership, your dog has not just lost a mate, but also his leader. By remaining calm and consistent and proving clear direction, your dog will feel more secure in the stable environment you are maintaining.
  • Don’t rush into getting another dog. Think carefully before bringing another dog into your household, as this can be counter-productive. Your remaining dog may not bond with the new dog because he hasn’t finished grieving. It is not easy to mend a broken heart, human or canine, so try to wait it out.

Remember that your dog needs your love and understanding. Be patient and supportive and he will return to his normal, fun-loving self.


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Jeri Wagner is a canine behavioral therapist and master trainer. Jeri uses a natural training system leveraging the same communication methods – body language and voice control – that dogs follow as part of their instinctive pack mentality. Training takes place in the home where the problems generally occur. Jeri trains in western Montgomery county and northern Chester County. For more information, call 1-877-500 BARK (2275) or visit

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 September 15, 2015  Training Tip Tuesday

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